Yes, the Lord can be furious in his punishment of the wicked. But i still fail to see any verses saying "Raping women is good".
Also like a stated only 3 posts ago, the book of Deuteronomy is a law set given to the Jewish nation only. They are Gods chosen people, but disgraced him at every turn! That is why Jesus was sent to warn them of their wrong doings, but they killed him! So Gods love was made available to Jews and Gentiles alike, if only they follow Jesus and trust in the Lord. However, akin to the entire Old testament, Jews remain stubborn and reject Gods word. They are supposed to make burnt offerings, and a temple in Jerusalem where the Lord resides! Where are these things? Why do they not practice the entire teachings of the Lord, if they claim their ways are righteous. There are some called Messianic Jews, they see the light and the truth. But most Jews are like most Christians now a days. They say they believe in God and trust in him, yet they sin day after day after day after day! They have been fooled into thinking sin is unavoidable! Theyll say oh getting drunk is not a sin! Smoking weed is not a sin! Lust is not a sin! Cursing is not a sin! They dont care! Theyll have covetnesss and greed in their heart and wont think twice about the Bible on a daily basis, yet they still say oh yes im a Jew or Christian. Adding hypocrisy to their sins...
Turn from your sin. The only person you are hurting by embracing what you know to be wrong is yourself. Obey the Lord God. Follow Jesus.