The Bible does not teach "every man for himself".
And that's your read on what I just said. You really need to learn to read.
It's simple.
If you live a life identical to a typical woke atheist... you will die.
If you live a righteous life according to the Jewish covenant... you will die.
Buddhism eightfold path... you will die.
And so on.
What, you think I'm going to tell you that Christians somehow are exempt?
The wages of sin is death. This very night, I could die in my sleep, for sin I committed more than an hour ago.
All of us sin, all of us pay the penalty. What Christianity teaches.
1. Treating others as you wanna be treated makes life bearable, especially if the people at the other end of the equation have even basic respect for your right to privacy, a quiet life, and basic freedoms.
1b. Of course, if they are total assholes, the most sensible thing to do is remind them that you do want to be ignored so you will ignore them. I don't care what you think.
2. The Bible taught morality, not altruism. The purpose of morality was that God would presumably reward righteousness with things like long life. Read this again. They were serving God, not because of no strings attached selflessness, but because God made several vows in reward for their loyalty. Now, yes, there were people like Hosea, who loved God in the same way as God loved Israel, as a love of a man for an unfaithful wife. But the inherent teaching of the Bible is that you follow God because he has promised you a land, he has promised protection of your land and people, and that while you dwell in Israel in righteousness, the land is fertile, flowing in milk and honey.
3. But even in the story of Job, there is a sense that God is not some lifeless set of laws, but a person with desires. An immortal person, yes, but we see God testing Job who has
tried to follow the law his whole life.
4. Which brings us to the point. You cannot follow God's law. It will never ever be enough. You confuse morality for altruism, but you could give everything you have, and die in poverty, while the law system (not God) declares the rich forgiven. That's the meaning of the parable of the widow's mite. Not that "she gave everything she had, how virtuous!" but "she gave everything she had to live on".
5. The law then, is viewed as a curse.
For all who rely on works of the law are under a curse; for it is written, "Cursed be everyone who does not abide by all things written in the Book of the Law, and do them." Now it is evident that no one is justified before God by the law, for "The righteous shall live by faith." But the law is not of faith, rather "The one who does them shall live by them." Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us—for it is written, "Cursed is everyone who is hanged on a tree"
In other words, asking to not be bothered medically is a valid request, and the so-called teachers of altruism are the worst sorts of hypocrites, for they expect everyone around them to sacrifice, but they never sacrifice themselves.
What have you sacrificed? Are you aware how the COVID "science" left many people impoverished, as they were booted from their jobs? Are you aware that it's one thing to say, "You need to take this medicine," but quite another to not even have the money to take a medicine every day, the rest of my life? If I had cancer or this imaginary child, you'd demand we spend our last dollar on chemo and/ or radiation or else "we hadn't tried enough."
Teachers of altruism beat other people over the head about how they haven't been selfless enough.
But Jesus says “love your neighbor as yourself. " Equivalency, not altuism. And he's quoting what was interpreted already as one of the two greatest commandments, the other being to love God entirely. In other words
this isnot a new teaching, it is the core teaching even of Judaism, and they lost sight of it.
Jesus also tells of people who are "altruistic" doing good deeds in order to brag or be praised. Virtue signalling. But I tell you, you've been rewarded by empty praise. Nothing about what you did was virtuous, and now you have the evil to tell others to sacrifice, when nothing you did was for anything but praise.
The human heart is incapable of pure altruism because it is self-seeking and prideful by default (Jeremiah 17:9). In other words, attempting to be selfless is inherently dishonest. The model to live by is expecting the same standards for others as self. Rather what Bible really taught was that that goodness is nor something we earn, but an outpouring from the grace we already receive.
https://pjmedia.com/culture/walter-hudson/2014/04/06/altruism-has-no-place-in-christianity-n151291“It is better to give than to receive.” How often have we heard that? The motto of the altruist, this would-be-proverb exhorts us to act for others at our expense. Among the vast culture of Christendom, altruism has been adopted as a tenant of the faith by many if not most believers. Churchgoers are encouraged to give sacrificially, which generally gets interpreted as giving until it hurts.
Yet careful examination of scripture suggests that altruism has no place in the Christian life. Consider this from pastor and theologian John Piper:
After my message to the Liberty University student body [in September of 2013], a perceptive student asked this clarifying question: So you don’t believe that altruistic acts are possible or desirable?
I asked for his definition of altruism so that I could answer what he was really asking. He said, “Doing a good deed for others with no view to any reward.” I answered: that’s right, whether or not it’s possible, I don’t think it’s desirable, because it’s not what the Bible teaches us to do; and it’s not what people experience as genuine love. Because it isn’t genuine love.
What does Piper mean by that? Consider that the phrase “it is better to give than to receive” does not actually appear in scripture. Instead, Acts 20:35 reads:
In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’”
More blessed for who? The Contemporary English Version translates it this way. “More blessings come from giving than from receiving.” The New Life Version among others translates it another way. “We are more happy when we give than when we receive.” Christ, according to Paul, tells us we are better off helping the weak than being among the weak who require help.
In other words, not that giving or receiving is better, but if you're on the receiving end, it means you're poor. Being poor sucks.
Reflecting upon the second part of Piper’s assertion, that giving without expectation of reward is “not what people experience as genuine love,” we can prove the worthlessness of altruism through our own experience. Imagine how your wife would react if you bought her a tremendous bouquet of her favorite flowers and said, “This cost me $100 that I would have rather spent on myself.” Try it and get back to me.
Most people don’t want to be “a charity case,” which is to say they don’t want to receive from pity or a begrudging sense of obligation. What makes a gift a gift is the love imbued within it. Otherwise, it’s just a handout.
We're assuming a joint account.
Instead, the model we have of giving is Christmas. Hopefully, you remember the actual guest of the birthday party, but Jesus's birthday, even with all the commercial nonsense, is a party where people give each other gifts.
They do to others as they want done to them. They share presents both ways. And as you get older and don't need presents as much, Christmas instead is about mutually agreed on family time. Or whatever else.
Altruism is not genuine love. I know this from experience, having done several volunteer stints, and become fed up by how used I felt. I was hoping the volunteering led to work, instead they thanked me, and I was expected to keep coming in. What I actually wanted, to find friends that liked me back, not a bunch of cheap users, was never paid to me. Failing that, money was okay (but from sucky jobs, sometimes not really worth it).
Christian giving promotes life and health. Altruism promotes starvation and death. Altruism redistributes. Christian giving transacts. Christ’s own words assure us of greater blessing in giving than receiving. Christian giving leaves us better off, not worse. Altruism therefore proves atheistic, as Piper declares. We will never give more to others than God will give to us.
And here indeed is someone who is not a Christian quoting scripture to convince me of something that is not so. Sorry pal, I know better. You're a con artist hoping to swindle the public into poverty. A "socialist of plenty". I've seen the houses of such people. Greta Thunberg is a millionaire. I have worked my whole life, and my average income was about $8000. I could work 100 years and not make what that "altruistic" twit made in about two to four years.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limousine_liberalhttps://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Champagne_socialistSince you have such a bleeding heart about this imaginary child of mine, here's an idea.
You help them. Make a GoFundMe paying for this kid's insulin for the next fifty years. The caveat is that I've not going to tell him how to use it. It by default goes into a trust to give him the medicine, but he can also ask me for the money and instead carry out a bucket list. Because I believe children have the right to live their lives without meddling from hypocrites.