What I trust is down to me. I don't trust certain people...should I get help? I know con men operate by duping people so I learn to question and not trust, do I need mental health care for it?
I'm afraid that if you trust only your own instincts, and refuse to trust anybody else, then yes, you DO need psycho-therapeutic intervention.
Intractable distrust is just one of the symptoms of a paranoid personality disorder, and includes a pervasive distrust and suspiciousness of others such that their motives are interpreted as malevolent. [DSM-IV Code: 301.0.]
There's a difference between not trusting certain things and people and being paranoid about everything. I happily accept many things without even giving a thought to questioning or not trusting.
Are you telling me that you trust everything in your life and about your life?
For instance: If a dog savages you, are you going to trust walking past that dog again? It's like the news. I don't trust what comes from the media, because it's been found out on many occasions to blatantly lie. You see, we can pick and choose what to believe and trust.
Do you lock your doors at night and windows and do you lock up and put a byrglar alarm on when you go away on holiday? If you do, then why do you do it. Let's assume you've never been burgled. Wouldn't you trust to leave it all unlocked?
Are you paranoid for doing this?
The list is endless with what we do and don;t trsut. Just because I don;t trust a lot of official clap trap does not mean I have a mental disorder.
If I start running diown the street with a tin foil hat on and screaming," the end is nigh" or " run for your lives, they're out ot get us", then, yes, I would agree, I would have a major head problem.
I don't do this, nor do I talk about conspiracies and Earth shapes when I'm out socialising. Why? Because I'm well aware of public opinion, just like I won't argue politics or religion...they're all guaranteed to end up how they usually do, with name calling and even bloodshed.
Now weirdly, in most cases; it's usually those that believe official lines that become uncivil or violent with full on teeth clenching...so I ask you...who has the problem?