I don't see how this holds up if light bends.
Would you mind elaborating? I know very little of your beliefs on light, so it's hard for me to know where to begin unpacking.
For starters, I think we can come to at least one conclusion: if you believe that the bending of light is something intrinsic to light itself (that it "just bends," so to speak, either randomly, or arbitrarily, or perhaps according to some unknown pattern), then we are probably at an impasse. At the very least, we'll probably just end up arguing about the properties of light to no avail.
However, if you believe, as I do, that the bending of light us caused by something extrinsic to light itself (gravity, refraction, etc.), then we can probably make some forward progress. From there we could begin to inquire about what those conditions might be and if they are present anyplace between us and Jupiter.
That said, whether the bending of light is intrinsic or extrinsic, the paths that light from Jupiter would have to take to appear to be upside-down to two distant observers on a flat plane do strain the imagination. As I illustrate in my shoddy (but sufficient) diagram, some light would leave the surface of Jupiter and travel to Earth in exactly the manner predicted by modern physics (the right side of my second diagram). Some of the light, though, would not simply bend; it would do a corkscrew in exactly the right way, ending at exactly the correct angles when it strikes your eyes, to produce exactly the same image, without any other distortions, but upside-down. It's hard to imagine how photons emitted from the same surface of the same source toward two observers who are (relative to the distance those photons will travel) in virtually identical locations could lead to such strikingly divergent observations.