Pop Quiz hotshot, your dad has 12 months to live. What do you know?

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So I reserve the right to delete this if it embarasses th ehll out of me.  I'm a little ontoxicated.

I found out a few month ago that he my dad ahs termainal prostat ecancer. 

Check this out this is kind of funny. At one point they throught it was a stroke.  So they gave him.. wait for it.. the Exactly test they gave president trump that he bragged about.

Trump bragged about passing a test makes made to see if your brains are scrabled.

So vi visited him todya.  He leave me his last wish.  No funeral, No burla, none of that shit.  Nothing that cotsmoney.  I ask if he wants me to sprinkle the asjhses with mom's grave.  he says "whatever, i recan't realy stop you at hat point'.

So 12 months.  I plan t visit every month.  Everything is a new phase in watching the cancer eat him alive.  My brother ad sister noce tht  because they live with him every day.  It hits me every time I see him

You'd think the worst part owuld be my dad dying.  That's not the worst part.  he worst part is that I have to figure out wha th ehll I'm going to do with my loser brother and sister who can't support themselves.

Man fuck my life!
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Just spend time with him.  Don't worry about your siblings so much right now. 
Trust me, I lost my dad just a little over a year ago, try not to entangle your feelings about your siblings up with what you feel about losing him.  You guys will need each other.  Also as the day approaches you don't want your father to see the tension between you.

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I'm sorry man.
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Its gonna suck but you'll get through it.  Just keep doing what you're doing. 
You have been ignored for common interest of mankind.

I am a terrible person and I am a typical Blowhard Liberal for being wrong about Bom.

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Sorry to hear that.

You should probably start by stop letting Trump live in your head.  Unless you are related to him, he has nothing to do with your dad's cancer diagnosis.

Spending time with your dad will be the best thing.

As for your brother and sister, while you are spending some time with your dad, ask him.  The conversation may be hard, but you aren't going to get better advice from anyone else.
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That would put you in the same category as pedophile perverts like John Davis, NSS, robots like Stash, Shifter, and victimized kids like Alexey.

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I can't even imagine what you are going through, Crouton. So sorry to hear this. I hope you and your dad get a chance to enjoy each other's company and create some great memories during the time he has left.

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Crouton

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Sorry to hear that.

You should probably start by stop letting Trump live in your head.  Unless you are related to him, he has nothing to do with your dad's cancer diagnosis.

Spending time with your dad will be the best thing.

As for your brother and sister, while you are spending some time with your dad, ask him.  The conversation may be hard, but you aren't going to get better advice from anyone else.

While I don't deny that Trump lives rent free in my head the situation was just funny to me in the moment.  My father, brother and sister are all Trump supporters, at least I think they are.  I don't bring it up with them because I'm not an idiot.

But when the neurologist was giving that test all I could think of was "person, woman, man, camera tv" and I couldn't say anything!


Thanks for the kind words everyone.  It's going to be a rough 6 months to a year.  Expect more deranged rants littered with spelling errors.
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I'm sorry to hear you're going through this.
I'm sorry. Am I to understand that when you have a boner you like to imagine punching the shit out of Tom Bishop? That's disgusting.

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Love,n,stuff, Crouts.
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Don't destroy yourself in the process.

Your insurance covers personal counseling.   

This is not the time to share my personal crap.

PM me.

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Crouton

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I appreciate the offer. I'll PM you if it comes to that.

But for now it's rage, rage against the dying of the light on behalf of my father since he's very nonchalant about the whole thing.
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Re: Pop Quiz hotshot, your dad has 12 months to live. What do you know?
« Reply #10 on: February 24, 2023, 11:07:24 PM »
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Re: Pop Quiz hotshot, your dad has 12 months to live. What do you know?
« Reply #11 on: February 25, 2023, 12:37:23 AM »
Sorry to hear that. Condolences, Crouton.

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Re: Pop Quiz hotshot, your dad has 12 months to live. What do you know?
« Reply #12 on: February 25, 2023, 01:58:19 AM »
So sorry Crouton. Is there anything that you used to with your dad when you were a child like play chess or something? He might enjoy doing something like and reminiscing over the old days.
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Re: Pop Quiz hotshot, your dad has 12 months to live. What do you know?
« Reply #13 on: February 25, 2023, 06:27:38 AM »
I'm so sorry.
I'm sorry. Am I to understand that when you have a boner you like to imagine punching the shit out of Tom Bishop? That's disgusting.

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Re: Pop Quiz hotshot, your dad has 12 months to live. What do you know?
« Reply #14 on: February 25, 2023, 08:37:27 AM »
So sorry Crouton. Is there anything that you used to with your dad when you were a child like play chess or something? He might enjoy doing something like and reminiscing over the old days.

^This.
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That would put you in the same category as pedophile perverts like John Davis, NSS, robots like Stash, Shifter, and victimized kids like Alexey.

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Re: Pop Quiz hotshot, your dad has 12 months to live. What do you know?
« Reply #15 on: February 25, 2023, 10:46:18 PM »
So sorry Crouton. Is there anything that you used to with your dad when you were a child like play chess or something? He might enjoy doing something like and reminiscing over the old days.

That would have been a little awkward since my dad was an anti semite.  Great guy unless you were a, well, you know.

He hung in there for 10 months.  We made the most of it.  The last movie he watched was Fiddler on The Roof.  I'd like to believe it was a tacit apology for his antisemtism.

We're fortunate, in a way.  Not a lot of people get such advanced warnings of someone's impending death.
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Re: Pop Quiz hotshot, your dad has 12 months to live. What do you know?
« Reply #16 on: February 25, 2023, 10:54:18 PM »
So sorry Crouton. Is there anything that you used to with your dad when you were a child like play chess or something? He might enjoy doing something like and reminiscing over the old days.

That would have been a little awkward since my dad was an anti semite.  Great guy unless you were a, well, you know.

He hung in there for 10 months.  We made the most of it.  The last movie he watched was Fiddler on The Roof.  I'd like to believe it was a tacit apology for his antisemtism.

We're fortunate, in a way.  Not a lot of people get such advanced warnings of someone's impending death.

Oh shit, didn't look at the date of this thread. Sorry he died but glad you got those 10 months to make the most of.
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