Tinder sucks

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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #30 on: August 14, 2020, 03:37:24 PM »
one word: prostitute

I'm not that needy to be honest.

But feel free to do so, I don't judge you. Just make sure you and them are safe and they are not trafficked etc.
Nah just don't.
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #31 on: August 14, 2020, 05:00:01 PM »

one word: prostitute

I'm not that needy to be honest.

But feel free to do so, I don't judge you. Just make sure you and them are safe and they are not trafficked etc.

I meant YOU become a prostitute.   ;D


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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #32 on: August 14, 2020, 05:43:32 PM »
You could always identify as a lesbian.
I think I'll do that.
Help! I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body.
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #33 on: August 16, 2020, 03:39:44 AM »
You could always identify as a lesbian.
I think I'll do that.
Help! I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

Uhggg, I'll do you.




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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #34 on: August 17, 2020, 02:11:25 PM »
Update:
I still think tinder sucks!
I was writing with three girls (one responded even tho I only wrote 'hey :)' as an opener  ;D), but I already stopped writing with one (I considered her boring & gold digger), with the other two there's still some smalltalk going, but nothing particulary interesting.

Also I feel like I am carrying all the conversations, like, I get decent replies from them but usually it's like this:
Me: are you studying/working?
Her: I work xy and do blabla, you?
Me: I am studying xy and blabla. Have you already had holidays this summer?
Her: yes I did xy and you?

You get the point, it feels like I do all the topic/question asking work and then get a reply+and you?
Kinda makes me lose interest already tbh  :-\
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #35 on: August 17, 2020, 02:58:40 PM »
Isn't Tinder filled with people only looking for a quick no strings attached root?

To be honest, I don't think these girls care. They just want shallow meaningless sex after a fancy dinner or drinks (paid for by you)

That's a generalisation of course but I don't think Tinder is what people generally think if when looking for a long term partner to settle down, marry and have kids with

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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #36 on: August 17, 2020, 03:10:33 PM »
To be honest, I don't think these girls care. They just want shallow meaningless sex after a fancy dinner or drinks (paid for by you)
Nah I didn't match with those types, it's pretty clear which ones are those when looking at the pics.
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #37 on: August 19, 2020, 03:27:11 AM »
Isn't Tinder filled with people only looking for a quick no strings attached root?

To be honest, I don't think these girls care. They just want shallow meaningless sex after a fancy dinner or drinks (paid for by you)

That's a generalisation of course but I don't think Tinder is what people generally think if when looking for a long term partner to settle down, marry and have kids with
People don't usually look on Tinder for a long term relationship but not for the reasons you say. People usually use it when they need a confidence boost and to just go on a date after getting turned down/breaking up or whatever, if they even want to go on a date and not just get a few matches. It's not true for everyone but it's very common. It's also why some people match but never give enough of a shit to actually reply/go on a date. I have friends who matched with people on Tinder while in a relationship with no intention to actually date the ones they matched with.
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #38 on: August 19, 2020, 07:00:44 AM »
Maybe I should give it a try just for the experience... and actually talking with someone of the opposite sex.

 ;D

 
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #39 on: August 19, 2020, 09:36:03 AM »
Maybe I should give it a try just for the experience... and actually talking with someone of the opposite sex.

 ;D
Tinder is a very bad place to start doing that.
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #40 on: August 19, 2020, 01:55:59 PM »
The only keeper you meet from Tinder is herpes.

Just go out and socialise like a normal person and meet a nice girl that way

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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #41 on: August 19, 2020, 03:32:14 PM »
Internet dating is ultimately - shit.

You have to remember, that while you were corresponding with 3 females at once, each of those 3 females were probably corresponding with at least 3 at once, also. But, more realistically 5 to 10.

Like shifter said, if you want an std, it's the way to go. If you want a stalker, it's the way to go. If you want to find out you've been lied to, it's the way to go. Internet dating screams of desperate people.

But if you are oversexed, and just want to shag, buy yourself a big pack of frangers and sow your royal oats. Oh, and here's a tip from an expert. Never ever ever, invite them round to your place - to meet face to face the first time. You'll never get rid of 'em!

But if you want a girlfriend, join a club with women with similar interests to you. Take your time (months) to get to know someone, before dating.
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #42 on: August 20, 2020, 01:28:25 AM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.
« Last Edit: August 20, 2020, 01:30:53 AM by Pezevenk »
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« Reply #43 on: August 20, 2020, 02:07:33 AM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.

The chances of contracting an STI or STD is going to be greater among people who have a lot of sex with random people than among people who have only been in a few relationships or more conservative people who might not even want sex before marriage

It's no guarantee. But honestly how large is the circle of people when you hook up for meaningless sex. A girl you shag might have been with 10 guys in her life. And what if those guys have each had a few encointers before meeting her who all had encounters and so on.


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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #44 on: August 20, 2020, 04:34:19 AM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.

The chances of contracting an STI or STD is going to be greater among people who have a lot of sex with random people than among people who have only been in a few relationships or more conservative people who might not even want sex before marriage

It's no guarantee. But honestly how large is the circle of people when you hook up for meaningless sex. A girl you shag might have been with 10 guys in her life. And what if those guys have each had a few encointers before meeting her who all had encounters and so on.
Why do you think people on Tinder have lots of random sex with random people? If anything, it's more likely that they have less sex, otherwise they probably wouldn't be on Tinder.
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« Reply #45 on: August 20, 2020, 04:38:48 AM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.

Dumbo, maybe because tinder is a hook-up site based primarily on looks, age, and distance to your location?

There are lots of clubs out there for young people, or people of all ages.

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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #46 on: August 20, 2020, 05:08:07 AM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.

Dumbo, maybe because tinder is a hook-up site based primarily on looks, age, and distance to your location?
So?

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There are lots of clubs out there for young people, or people of all ages.
Like what? Golf club? Yachting club?

"Join a club and find people with common interests" is just one of these "easy solutions" offered to people who have trouble dating, without considering if it actually works or not. I know very few people my age who have joined any kind of "club", and none who met their partner through a "club". It's a worse option than Tinder and Tinder is already bad enough.

The best way to date is meeting people through common friends. If you like them you try to speak to them while you're out together with your common friends. Don't tell them anything stupid right then and there because it's awkward. But if they seem to enjoy at least talking to you, you add them on social media and then you find an excuse to send them a message (something interesting). It's better to ask your common friend about it before, and see if they are single and if they would be interested. If they are responsive to your messages then you could ask them if they are interested to meet with you because you'd like to know them better. You could even say you like them right then and there, in fact it might be better because you will be more certain they are interested, but it is a bit riskier.

"But what if I don't have any friends?" Well then you have a greater issue than not having a relationship.

If this doesn't work try Tinder. Or you could try them simultaneously. Tinder kinda sucks and if you're not that gorgeous it might do bad things to your self esteem because you'll get rejected loads but it's an option.

These are the only things I know work well. Not clubs.
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #47 on: August 20, 2020, 07:56:54 AM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.

Dumbo, maybe because tinder is a hook-up site based primarily on looks, age, and distance to your location?
So?

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There are lots of clubs out there for young people, or people of all ages.
Like what? Golf club? Yachting club?

Cricket clubs.  Great place to meet horny young women.

Though it's a while since I played cricket, so I might be misremembering.
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #48 on: August 21, 2020, 04:16:46 AM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.

Dumbo, maybe because tinder is a hook-up site based primarily on looks, age, and distance to your location?
So?

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There are lots of clubs out there for young people, or people of all ages.
Like what? Golf club? Yachting club?

Cricket clubs.  Great place to meet horny young women.

Though it's a while since I played cricket, so I might be misremembering.

Imagine trying to flirt with someone in a cricket club.
-Hey, uh... You have nice hair?
-Uh thanks...
*crickets*
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #49 on: August 21, 2020, 04:55:02 AM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.

Dumbo, maybe because tinder is a hook-up site based primarily on looks, age, and distance to your location?
So?

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There are lots of clubs out there for young people, or people of all ages.
Like what? Golf club? Yachting club?

Cricket clubs.  Great place to meet horny young women.

Though it's a while since I played cricket, so I might be misremembering.

Imagine trying to flirt with someone in a cricket club.
-Hey, uh... You have nice hair?
-Uh thanks...
*crickets*

Not everyone you meet has to end in a romantic relationship. Sometimes meeting people and being friendly is enough to broaden your circle enough to a point you know lots of people

A big mistake people (mostly males) make is thinking every encounter with a girl should end in sex

I met my wife by being friendly with people. Just being there. They have friends, who became my friends and they had friends and so on.


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« Reply #50 on: August 21, 2020, 06:11:43 AM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.

Dumbo, maybe because tinder is a hook-up site based primarily on looks, age, and distance to your location?
So?

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There are lots of clubs out there for young people, or people of all ages.
Like what? Golf club? Yachting club?

Cricket clubs.  Great place to meet horny young women.

Though it's a while since I played cricket, so I might be misremembering.

Imagine trying to flirt with someone in a cricket club.
-Hey, uh... You have nice hair?
-Uh thanks...
*crickets*
Don't be silly, you compliment them on their cover drive technique or swing bowling.
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« Reply #51 on: August 21, 2020, 06:37:38 AM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.

Dumbo, maybe because tinder is a hook-up site based primarily on looks, age, and distance to your location?
So?

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There are lots of clubs out there for young people, or people of all ages.
Like what? Golf club? Yachting club?

Cricket clubs.  Great place to meet horny young women.

Though it's a while since I played cricket, so I might be misremembering.

Imagine trying to flirt with someone in a cricket club.
-Hey, uh... You have nice hair?
-Uh thanks...
*crickets*
Don't be silly, you compliment them on their cover drive technique or swing bowling.
And try not to mention their googlies.
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #52 on: August 21, 2020, 10:05:23 PM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.


I would suggest checking Dr. Brenda Fuchabunch's credentials
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #53 on: August 21, 2020, 11:46:39 PM »
The only keeper you meet from Tinder is herpes.

Just go out and socialise like a normal person and meet a nice girl that way
The corone though!
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #54 on: August 21, 2020, 11:54:51 PM »
"But what if I don't have any friends?" Well then you have a greater issue than not having a relationship.
I consider you my friend, does that count?
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #55 on: August 21, 2020, 11:58:03 PM »
Why do you think STDs are more prevalent among Tinder users? That's dumb.

Also lol at the club idea. Yeah young people are famously all about joining clubs.

Dumbo, maybe because tinder is a hook-up site based primarily on looks, age, and distance to your location?
So?

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There are lots of clubs out there for young people, or people of all ages.
Like what? Golf club? Yachting club?

Cricket clubs.  Great place to meet horny young women.

Though it's a while since I played cricket, so I might be misremembering.

Imagine trying to flirt with someone in a cricket club.
-Hey, uh... You have nice hair?
-Uh thanks...
*crickets*

I think then the issue is how you flirt and not where you do it :D
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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #56 on: August 22, 2020, 12:42:21 AM »
The only keeper you meet from Tinder is herpes.

Just go out and socialise like a normal person and meet a nice girl that way
The corone though!

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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #57 on: August 22, 2020, 02:17:24 AM »
Honestly, it's funny, how the greek pretends that stds arent more common among the successful tinder users. Pathetic if you ask me.
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« Reply #58 on: August 22, 2020, 09:56:36 PM »
Seriously, it depends on your interests. If you like playing pool, join a pool playing club.

If you like keeping fit and go to a gym, that's already a club of sorts. Plenty of attractive women go to gyms.

If you like meditation, you could join a meditation group.

You could look up something you're interested in, and go and do a two day course, where you might meet a female with similar interests and have two days to chat her up.

You could increase your knowledge and skills, by doing other courses like a first aid course.

You could put your fitness to good use by joining a surf lifesaving club.

You could join a club like Rotary or Apex, and as well as networking with females, improve your public speaking.

Otherwise, enroll yourself in a course at a college or university, even as part time. You're bound to meet members of the opposite sex that way, too.

Honestly, the possibilities are endless, but can be tailored around your own interests. Why limit yourself to desperados on the internet?

Networking and expanding your social circle is the key. If you are doing what you enjoy, you will be happier, and naturally more attractive to women with similar interests.


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Re: Tinder sucks
« Reply #59 on: August 23, 2020, 02:44:00 AM »
Seriously, it depends on your interests. If you like playing pool, join a pool playing club.

If you like keeping fit and go to a gym, that's already a club of sorts. Plenty of attractive women go to gyms.

If you like meditation, you could join a meditation group.

You could look up something you're interested in, and go and do a two day course, where you might meet a female with similar interests and have two days to chat her up.

You could increase your knowledge and skills, by doing other courses like a first aid course.

You could put your fitness to good use by joining a surf lifesaving club.

You could join a club like Rotary or Apex, and as well as networking with females, improve your public speaking.

Otherwise, enroll yourself in a course at a college or university, even as part time. You're bound to meet members of the opposite sex that way, too.

Honestly, the possibilities are endless, but can be tailored around your own interests. Why limit yourself to desperados on the internet?

Networking and expanding your social circle is the key. If you are doing what you enjoy, you will be happier, and naturally more attractive to women with similar interests.

Indeed

I think Le Greeks problem judging by this comment
Imagine trying to flirt with someone in a cricket club.
-Hey, uh... You have nice hair?
-Uh thanks...
*crickets*

Is that he thinks real life interactions is the same as online interactions. That women in real life like to be talked to as if they were advertising themselves on a no strings attached hook up app

Just put yourself out there and get to know people organically. None of this pretentious crap

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