Hi claire.
To avoid a discussing is possible with only keeping yourself out of discussing.
here we can freely discuss our ideas as believers. this environment is not available in many forums. but there are nasa, cia, fbi and nsa agents who work here. we need to be careful about them. there are many methods they use. One of the most major methods is to convince the reader how much your thoughts are wrong, can be lauhgtable, by moving together in a lot of people, with they supporting each other while someone says you're wrong.
another method is to do behaviors that will demoralize the believers. My English is not very good. so their game doesn't affect me much. because I don't fully understand what they're trying to do. but this may affect some readers.
I'm not sure of answering your question. Anyways. Wellcome.