Hurricanes are a breaking point of the life, and it is important to stay together with your loved ones.
Do you know why all loved ones come when you get a marry, a birth of a funeral of any your familiar?
Because these are the breaking points of the life.
"Whoever stays together with you, he is your lovely one. The opposite is also true.
Whoever stays with you, "becomes" to your lovely one; in any of a breaking point of the life."
I mean, you can become someone's lovely that you never seen her before, after you lived a breaking point of the life together. In other say, when people feel themselves alone in a breaking point of the life, they start to query of their lovely ones. Because she needed, and you were not there.
You example not like this, I don't talk about you. I talk about general life.