Unfortunately this poster reaffirms that men dont get raped either. What if Jake felt he was taken advantage of and woke up regretting having sex? Not sure how equality works here. This poster really does seem to reaffirm teh stereotype that men are alpha and woman are subservient damsels that need saving.
When both parties are intoxicated it really messes everything up. I mean what level? That you both could barely walk, talk coherently or even open your eyes properly? Or just a little tipsy and 'happy drunk'?
Obviously drugging/spiking is instant rape, even if the victim verbally consented (as some drugs make you far more trusting), but if you both got a little drunk and got overly amorous but one person has the 'morning after regret', Too bad, so sad, not rape
I'm afraid the whole argument of 'consent' has extended to whether or not the woman (never the man) still gives her consent in hindsight the next morning. It's like if she wakes up and changes her mind - you raped her. Or if a woman is simply too scared to say no, apparently the man is still a rapist because men are scary.
We have all heard that 'metoo' story where a woman blasted a celebrity on social media trashing his reputation after an oral encounter despite the fact at the time she was (seemingly) into it.
I think the issue of consent is getting out of hand. Why is a verbal 'yes' even needed in some situations? If you both take each others clothes off and offer no resistance (and indeed help) with penetration, than what the hell is wrong with that?
It's going to get to the point where people need a written contract, signed by a witness to even touch another person (ok, maybe it wont get that far but if it did, I wont be surprised).