Yes I have given examples of how hard work "Trumps" luck..myself included there are three people who whom have shared their story of how you get dealt a difficult hand and over come it. Every successful person I frequent their company has the same story....it took alot of work, alot of blood but perseverance was achieved.
The only person I know that "came from money" (2.1 million at 19 from death of father) went completely bankrupt in 5 years because under his own words "he has the sense of entitlement and was an idiot"....guess what, he admitted his problem, snapped out of it, and within another 6 years, he was back in the green. That is alot of work, at least I started a 0, he started at a negative with nothing, that is hard work.
Every successful person (no they don't have to be millionaires to be successful) EVERY successful person I have met or frequent have the same mentality. You reap what you sow and no excuses...
EVERY sad case of failure has the exact same mentality....poor me, excuses, and gimmie because I am that great so I deserve it. These examples come from all sorts of social standings. I love meeting young people, they may be sleeping on a couch, but I will see that drive and no bullshit mentality...I will know they will be ok. They always are...
In many ways it is easier to to make it now than in the past thanks to this new sad mentality. The playing field is a bit more open for those that fight to do.
I have also stated the 10 percent /15 percent will need to follow in line with many other changes. Also yes, we need a "complete change", so what? If America were a private business it would have had its doors shut a decade ago (and be in jail)...so when you have a business malfunctioning, sometimes you need to complete overhaul. The private sector does that all the time.
Plus it is not even a "total overhaul", just a reboot, we have already been there once before....deleting things is much easier and quicker than building new. Complete these changes and minimum wage under employment will be a thing of the past.
Inflation, cost of living, and wages will all be proportional again....right now minimum wage is just a formality, pretty useless in the real world. Minimum wage before, you could at least live off of, that was the whole point. Yet it's percent was created way before cost of living, inflation and wages was non proportionally gapped.
Do you listen to yourself??? "You reap what you sow" is insulting to you?? Your mind set of "success is accidental" and if you reach this lottery somehow you gotta give it to everyone else is insulting and very unhealthy. It is painfully obvious by your bleak outlook the company you keep.(also I know you are in "liberal", college so that surely doesn't help)..Sitting around speaking of how we all are victims and we need to be compensated by somebody for something gets you no where but failure. Even if you can inch by in life with this mentality, you will be inching on someone else's dime.
You also speak about the real world?? Apparently I need to be "introduced to it"...talk about the pot calling the kettle black. I don't live in rainbow of unicorns and wizards where life is the same difficulty level for everyone, and heaven forbid someone should have a little difficulty or a hurt feeling they should be compensated by someone. I don't give two shits college was easier for someone who had their ride taken care of than for me. I built some unique qualities because of it.
Everyone I know with a similar story of strife, they all feel the exact same way, wouldn't trade it. Also it has always kept them grounded to the regular Joe no matter their social standing, they just don't except excuses. Sure there are liberals who will yell at them "you don't care about our struggle, our hurt feelings..now I need to to into my safe space right now, because I feel a little emotionally frazzled right now"....so what?
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No one gave a shit about my "hurt feelings" when I was having to shower in a sink and wash my two pairs of shirts and one pair of pants in that same sink. So what??? All I cared about was how to fit my 6'4 self kinda in the sink....it forced me to make a makeshift head at school and splice it into the main feed. It surely helped....didn't need a "safe space" to deal with it either.
With your mentality, I would truly feel for you if you lost family support and your nanny state protection. You would be introduced to the real world very harshly, and I would worry about you. Though something tells me you would adjust quickly, and your views of life would change equally as quick.
Finally....since you think you are stating absolute fact....let me help you with those (as it seems you are a little bit off)..
The liberal mentality is completely ass backwards...rewarding failure, bad ideas, immorality, and laziness....yet demonizing success, morality, and hard work....how in the world does this ass backwards Bizarro world have any chance if success. Surely liberals cant seriously believe it will work....or is that how dilited the mind has become? Or is it just some cruel joke that some one will finally come out and say "gotcha!!".
Liberals are supporting a system of government that has failed EVERYTIME in history...not just once or a couple EVERYTIME!! It has failed EVERYTIME in social experiments, even the most recent one the outreach tried with a group in Zimbabwe (it was meant to help, not just an experiment)...they tried the liberal approach and it failed in nine months with 240 people. Removed the "ass backwards" approach and it is a thriving town now that has tripled in population.
Following a known method that is a 100 percent guaranteed failure...how could such self proclaimed smart people think this will work? Though I suppose it goes along with the mentality, why not take a complete failure or a method and use it in a system where failure is rewarded.
Two nice ways to sum up where we are....Kaitlyn Jenner machine is a national hero, then real success and real heros are demonized....ha ha.. PASS
A world where we "don't keep score" because it will "hurt their feelings" (even though failure in any activity is a MUST for a young person, teaches them to bounce back, fight and win next time, very valuable in the real world)
PASS!
Another FACT for you....
One day either the nanny state will be become completely insolvent under its own weight and collapse....or the minority will call it quits in supporting the majority and either leave the country or just say screw it and jump on the free hand wagon. Will still cause the same collapse ....all money going out none coming in.
I hope this does not happen in your life time Jane...but history guarantees it will one day. Then the "reality" I am "so far disconnected" from might actually set in.