So Einstein was wrong when he said that gravity happens as a result of mass curving spacetime?
No I explained to you how one body/mass can affect another body/mass. I only explained the communication mechanism. Spacetime curvature is an instigator while virtual particles are a mediator. So I suppose I answered "How does gravity work" as opposed to "Ehat causes gravity" but I find the most common issue people have is understanding why one object would be attracted to another by invisble forces.
If you still want to know the specific "Why there is a gravity" then you will have to settle for spacetime curvature or enroll in a 4-dimensional tensor mathematics course.
Isn't there a couple of issues though that we are glossing over? Roundy knows the answers to the questions that he is asking. The gravitron is as of now just a hypothetical particle that corresponds to the gravitational force. This however contradicts Einstien's theory that gravity is not a force, that it is the bending of spacetime. This is why time, something without even hypothetical particles, could be effected by it. But I obviously don't have to explain to you that relativity and quantum mechanics are not unified, and currently don't even play well together.
Now of course I could be wrong. I have not taken a Quantum mechanics course, and I have never taken a math based Physics course. However If you spend a large amount of time in Astro courses like I do, then you pick up the general issues regarding the two competeing theories.
Science currently does not have a great explanation for gravity, some even hypthesize that M theory would allow for gravity to be a force that is leaking in from the 11th dimension, also known as a parrallel universe. This would explain why it is such a comparitvly weak force.
Really Roundy is just waiting for you to admit that like all scientists you don't really understand what is going on, and that you have no evidence for the puller particle that you described, except to say that the other forces have particles that correspond to them. And even if there is a puller particle, it is at this point incompatible with the idea that gravity is not a force, but rather the curvature of spacetime.
Now Like I said earlier, I could be butchering all of this. But If i am, please explain what I am getting wrong, I love to learn more.