Thinkingman, either you are playing devil's advocate or, I think, you don't understand. here are a few rebuttals:
Did you just leave a high school debate class?
Immaterial
There is no evidence to support any theory of gravity.
Incorrect, read any popularization and/or technical paper and they will point you to evidence.
All we know is mass attracts mass, and we call it gravity.
half truth, we know light bends around massive objects. this has been corroborated after edison.
No carrier-particle (if that's the term you want to use) has been discovered in which this force propagates
Carrier Particles are sufficient, not necassery.
[and] it has not been shown that space-time actually bends to cause gravity in mass, as we have no way of observing space-time bending.
Really? Are you saying that the General and Special Theories of Relativity are unfalsifiable?
So, there is no evidence. They are correct, they did not disagree. It clearly exists, but there's nothing supportive like there is for another seeming mystery force, magnetism.
They did disagree, they just don't understand (and, it seems neither do you) the implications of what they are saying.
My point was, the two mainstream gravitation theories (graviton and bent space-time) have not currently been shown to be true.
Yes, light does bend around massive objects, but they tend to need a hefty mass, if you will. But my point was we know that mass attracts mass. Light has no mass.
Carrier particles may not be necessary, but every force/energy that I know of uses a carrier particle to propagate in a wave-like manner.
What I'm saying about GR/SR is that it I'm sure, just like every other theory, that it IS in fact falsifiable. There has not been any accept falsification, but that does not mean it is infallible. It cannot be shown that Space-time bends because space-time, as far as we know, is immaterial, and we currently have no technology to analyze the immaterial.
And the way I understood it, they were saying two different things. One said "there is no supporting evidence." The other said "there clearly is gravity."