What had you expected to get on your first date
A second date.
Oh she said no? Sorry bro, better luck next time.
Actually it didn't come up. But she just didn't seem very interested. Usually I'd expect a girl to ask me stuff about myself or if she likes me to in some way tell me she likes at least something about me. You know, I like your eyes, you've a great sense of humour, you've a charming smile, I like your accent. Anything really. Lie if you must. But to not give any hint at all. I'm not Paul McKenna.
Anyway I sent a text saying thanks for the really nice evening and stuff and got no reply. Then I saw her today and she just chatted about her car being stuck in the snow and stuff. It doesn't really leave me any place to go. You can't progress if you have absolutely no feedback at all. That's the way to get a slap around the face. So rather than be a pest, I guess that's it. Ball's in her court but I don't think she really felt like hitting it back.
Its understandable really. I don't have a huge amount to offer right now.
Anyway, its dinner time. Gonna make some chips and oven something with them.