QFT and GR are incompatible at high energies, that is true, and describe the exact same phenomena for lower energies. As pointed out above, Quantum Gravity addresses this issue at high energies. If the gravitons are never found despite big efforts, or will somehow be discovered not to exist, general relativity will still be the best theory, until a better one comes along. If, however, gravitons are discovered, they would explain gravity better than GR. This does in no way mean that gravity does not exist, and that space-time is not bent by massive objects (since we do know that light bends around the sun etc.).
It was not my intention to be impolite, I'm sorry if I was. My impoliteness wasn't directed to you personally, but to all those who do not follow my suggestion. I do go to college, and study physics, although I admit I have not been taking any course in General Relativity, but well in QFT. However, I don't recon such deep knowledge in physics is needed to realize gravity exists (or not) or that the earth is round (or flat, if it is).