Its not what you make someone wear thats important here. Its instilling the self confidence and morals in a child that when she grows older she doesnt feel she has to dress that way to get peoples attention. If you raise a child right she wont want to wear that shit later as she gets older. Ive got one now thats coming of age, and so far so good. Only time will tell i guess.
I broadly agree with what your aims are, especially in regards to self-confidence.
If I had a daughter, my aim would be to teach that she didn't need to dress as anybody forces her to dress, she should be comfortable in how she dresses and she is more than the clothes she dresses in.
If she felt more at home in a miniskirt than a pair of jeans, fine, if she felt more comfortable as a bull-dyke then again, great for her, I would only have a problem if she felt that she
had to dress like that or it's what people expected her to dress.