Also, I still 100% defend any moderation decisions I have made. What I am referring to is my lack of will to bother with posts concerning certain things and my general tone. It should be noted my tone never reached the point yours did or even measurably close to it and I did not moderate horribly like you.
I know you were replying to Hara, and I don't actually know exactly what you guys are referring to, but I think that defending your moderator actions 100% and refusing to sort of see things from the regular users perspective is (or could be) a bit of a problem. I don't think you are a bad mod at all, I've always thought you were pretty cool about things. I don't always agree with you, and I never will, but that's how people are.
Also, I don't know what's going on with you that you'd think the forum is getting worse. Since Wilmore was made admin, and certain mods are no longer mods, things have been pretty smooth around here. I'm sure the angry noobs are the same as they ever were, but most of us who've been around for awhile have accepted the new way.
I wish you still went by Username!