Photos aren't proof either way, it would be hypocritical of us to use them and discount yours.
No. See the thing is that photos can be discounted if there is evidence within the photos that it is fake. Google "how to spot a fake photo". Clues are non uniform contrast, non uniform perspective, admission of forgery, and so on...
Perhaps a more apt term for such a search would be "how to spot a badly faked photo", then. It's easy enough to do with the budget and equipment.
Photos cannot be discounted out of hand. That way is the way of the FEer.
What, the correct way? Thank you for your admission.
Well I'm not allowed to trust my eyes and photos.
I assume as I cannot trust my eyes that also means my other senses are out. How can I tell if I am real, if I am not what am I doing, what am I sitting on?
Is this really a web forum?
How do I know I'm not in the matrix?
You don't. That's a philosophical question, correct science takes such flaws as a given, which is the main fault of most, if not all REers who come here have.
Personally, I don't think there exists any conclusive proof for FE as of the time of typing. There are interesting arguments for either side, but nothing conclusive either way. I find FE more plausible, with more arguments based around inarguable maths and physics rather than photos and unverified claims. While some areas of FET are simply explanations intended to answer the questions of REers, and this often shows on deeper analysis, many principles are sound enough to make it more sensible to me than RE, that's my objective position.
I say objective not out of pretentiousness or arrogance, but because I, after a fit of unjustifiable, unresearched rage at FE like so many here, stripped emotion out of it and realised I have no stake in it either way and that I don't really care, which let me look at it more clearly.
(Sorry if the paragraphing looks odd, I added it in afterwards upon realising the wall of text.)