Most FE'ers do not believe that the earth is special
Have you read the FAQ?
Q: "Why are other celestial bodies round but not the Earth?"
A: The Earth is not one of the other planets. The Earth is special and unlike the other bodies in numerous ways.
The problem is, FE'ers will claim one thing, then when confronted they'll claim another.
......... sigh
The faq was written to be intentionally flamboyant to gain interest. I do not endorse it and it does not fairly represent the FE view. The question was why aren't the other planets flat. What the faq means is, they are different from the Earth, the "Planets" in the sky are different from the Earth in the same way that the stars in the sky are different from the Earth. When RE theory claims that the Earth is different from Jupiter does that make the Earth "special"? I wouldn't say so.