Can you point me to some reference that this is the correct way to calculate gravitational forces on the inside of a solid body?
Here's my problem - consider two points that are 1m each from the center of the Earth, diametrically opposed, so that the total distance between them is 2m. If you consider the Earth as two hemispheres and calculate the force between the COGs, that does NOT give you the force between those two points. By doing the calculation that way, you would be off by orders of magnitude.
Similarly, while the total force between the two blocks would be what you have calculated, that does not equate to having that force spread equally across a plane, as you are doing. You need to consider the gravitational force from every point, not just the COGs.
You are endlessly talking about forces, when the real problem you have to solve is either pressure or, better yet, stress and strain. The sum of forces on every particle of a sphere when there are no external forces is zero.
My textbook is "Statics and Dynamics" by J.L. Meriam, ISBN 0-471-07862. But any statics textbook will do. On page 71 (chapter 3, Equilibrium) you are instructed on how to use the basic constraint of the problem (that the system is in equilibrium) and use that fact to isolate the part of the system where you want to know the forces.
Since we are assuming that our 6000x6000x1000 km block is in equilibrium, we can cut it in any place we want and we know that the sum of the forces in that part is zero. In this case we know that the force that the first block exerts against the second block is the same as in the opposite direction. Furthermore, we know that the only force between the two blocks is the gravitational pull, and we know the exact amount. Therefore, the average force between the blocks is known, and therefore the average pressure made perpendicular to the plane is known, and I already gave you the numbers.
Now, if you calculate the pressure on another plane, for example the one that divides the block in two 6000x6000x500 kilometer blocks, you will see that the pressure is not the same in every direction, so the metal will not keep its shape. In your example, inside a sphere the pressure is the same in every direction and that is why the forces in two points a meter from the center are the same.
Please do your homework, do not tell me "I don't like your maths". You are free to use any method you like, but not to do as you did, arguing against the calculation of pressures but talking only about forces.