But the problem is he is controlling our fate simply by letting us choose what he knows we will choose. He knows what will happen to us in the end and by not preventing it he has controlled our lives. (That is if he did exist.)
If your parents give you a decision and already know what you'll choose, did they not give you a choice?
If your parents can see you're going to cause harm to yourself, or someone else, don't they have a duty to intervene and protect the person at risk?
Doesn't God have a duty to protect his "flock"?
What is the better teacher, experience or being told? Being told that something is hot is not nearly as effective as the burned finger.
God if he exists, allows us to learn from experience.
No he damns us to an eternity in Hell if we don't make the right choice. We might learn form experience, but that is scant comfort if we don't get to use it.
Purgatory... Then Hell if you warrant it.
Then you should be an Atheist...
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Or at least an AgnosticAs an Atheist you do not actually violate any of the 10 commandments. Specifically the one that says not to worship other Gods (actually, if God is the only God, then why have this at all, why not just say that as the only God, if you worship another God you are worshipping a false God, and then state not to worship false Gods).
If you don't worship the right God, then that is more offensive than worshipping no Gods. As an Atheist you choose not to worship any Gods, if you are wrong, then by your reasoning, you will get a second chance as you haven't actually broken any of the commandments. But if you "pick" a religion, then you have chosen to worship that God, and if you are wrong then it will be worse for you as you will have broken one of the commandments (if you are right then good for you, but with all the religions, and all the different versions of them, which one is the one true religion).
Which do you think would be better. You appear before God and say, well I worshipped this other Guy as I don't think you were good enough.
Or...
Well as there was so many different ones, I couldn't be sure which one was right.
If any.