This has just gone too far.
The EP is all about reference frames. In FE, the reference frame we choose goes with the Earth. It accelerates at 9.8 m/s^2 upwards. This is the reference frame in which we do all of our experiments. By the EP, any experiment we do in this reference frame is equivalent to any we do in a gravitational field of -9.8m/s^2. It's that simple. Really.
and air resistance is not a uniformly accelerating field so therefore the EP can not be applied until it is uniform, ie. net acceleration with the air is zero
We are not working in the frame of object which falls through the air. We are working in the frame of the Earth. The EP applies.
If you disagree with this, you disagree with General Relativity, because it also states that we are accelerating upwards at 9.8m/s^2.