If the earth is flat, then are all amateur and major observatory specialists in on the conspiracy? if not, then thousands of amateur and professional observatory specialists, who have high powered telescopes and measuring equipment, would be able to prove beyond a doubt that the moon is round and is farther away than your theory states. and with combined cooperation between observatory labs they would be able to prove, and have in fact proven, that the lunar phases are no caused by freak light reflections. there is no non-reflective mass on this planet that could cause freak light refraction in the effect of a crescent moon.
if you can accurately explain moon phases, you might have my attention. but in your faq this site only gave a vague "something causes it" explanation.
theories are not based on beliefs that have absolutely no explanation.