Everything in relativity is exactly that - relative. Any problem has to be laid out in the format of observer and object under consideration. If the observer is free-falling, he is justifiably 'at rest' in a relativistic sense, since the only thing all observers can agree on is "Does anyone have their jetpack switched on right now?". It doesn't matter if that 'jetpack' is just that, or whether it's contact acceleration from the ground, or an asteroid hitting you in the face. Let's assume the Earth is made of glass and cannot be seen by eye - someone standing on the ground is accelerating upwards, as seen by someone free-falling above them.
Likewise, to the person on the ground the free-faller appears to be accelerating downwards towards them - the difference is that when the two look at their accelerometers the free-faller reads zero, and the guy on the ground measures an upwards acceleration of g. Consequently we can conclude that, in any meaningful definition of acceleration, the person on the ground is accelerating, whereas the person free-falling towards the ground is not.