Perhaps I stated it wrong. Let me try a different way.
The force required to move the Ocean in the RE should be the same in the FE.
I would have to argue that FE tilting mechanism is not only about moving just the oceans, but also about lowering and raising coastlines. To get its effect, it would actually spend less force moving the oceans than RE spends moving the oceans. You simply can't divorce the mechanism from tilting the entire FE.
If we, just for a theoretical exercise, consider your new claim, I'd still have to ask to substantiate the claim. I believe that the force required to pull the Earth and the nearby ocean more than the far ocean the need distance toward the Moon is not the same as the force required to push the waters of the FE around laterally. Heck, the even the oceans are larger on FE than they are on RE, so there is more to more around.
I maintain that you can't calculate the force that the FE tidal mechanism employs, so you can't make any comparison to the force the RE mechanism employs.
BTW, I'm still rather sure than no FEer still supports the tilting mechanism of tides. It should be detectable, but isn't. It fails to position the tides in the low and middle latitudes. It fails to produce two high tides and two low tides daily.
Please never worry about asking me about these topics. I appreciate your questions and willingness to learn. Cheers.