What then, makes things (with mass) bend space-time hmm?
Answer that question correctly and with observational backing and you get a Nobel prize and instant superstar status. Truth is, we don't know, for we can only speculate.
A FE-er calling me stupid? please.
Yes, because intelligence is often associated with beliefs. This is why Fred Phelps is as intelligent and logical as Einstein.
Lets take it down a step. I can't help but feel you are refusing to answer the obvious. How is it that i can get masses on the earth and show that they have a gravitational pull?
Your question is too vague, or else obviously flawed - you shouldn't be able to get two masses on Earth to attract each other (with gravity alone), because the Earth's "gravitational field" cancels out the miniscule force between the two objects (For GTR, Earth bends spacetime in such a way that smaller masses barely contribute and can be seen as negligible).
Would this not mean the earth has a gravitational pull, seeing as it is made up of these masses?
Just like how insulators should be affected by electricity the same way conductors are affected? Some chemicals blow up when placed in water - does this mean that all chemicals blow up when placed in water? Gravity could be a selective "force". You need to acknowledge that we know little about gravity and we're just making up shit to fit the observations.
"Einstein's theory is exactly analogous to this. In Newton's theory, gravity makes particles leave their straight paths. In Einstein's theory of general relativity, gravity is a distortion of space-time. Particles still follow the straightest possible paths in that space-time. But because space-time is now distorted, even on those straightest paths, particles accelerate as if they were under the influence of what Newton called the gravitational force."
R_uv - (1/2) * g_uv * R = (8 * Pi * G/c^4) * T_uv , in other words.
but at the end of the day, to put it in plain english, masses attract each other no matter how you want to explain it.
Or "matter tells spacetime how to bend, and spacetime tells matter how to behave," as depicted in the above equation.