I've outlined the basis for this thought
here but my simple analogy deserves an own topic in this section of the forum.
- the butterfly is stuck on this cherry
- the cherry uses the gravitational force (G of unknown quantity) to attract the butterfly to its skin
- in order for the butterfly to escape from the cherry, she needs to overcome this attraction and create a "repulsion" from the surface
- hovering on the skin doesn't work as the air around the skin of the cherry (the "atmosphere") experiences the same G of the cherry
- jumping doesn't work as G still acts on the butterfly
- G is solely based on m; mass is defining gravitational pull (and thus "push")
- the butterfly needs to eat away at least half of the mass of the cherry in order to have enough G to be able to escape
- at the moment the butterfly has eaten the cherry enough, it then becomes susceptible to the gravitational force of the Earth, many times stronger than that of the cherry. In order to escape not only the cherry (Earth for us) but also the Earth (Sun to us), she needs to eat then more than half the Earth
in order to escape according to the same concept
- she then becomes a "planet", in orbit around the Sun, no escape from there...
Any alien civilization, no matter how intelligent and active for more than the microseconds mankind is living on this planet, will suffer from exactly the same problem making it both for us impossible to visit them and for them to visit us.